It has happened with all of us. Friends have walked away, fought with us, been unresponsive, sometimes selfish too. Sometimes when you need them the most, they are not there with you. Even when they are there, they choose to remain silent.
It happened with me too sometime back. I was hurt and needed to talk. But there was sudden indifference on my friends' part. I wondered why do people do that? I could not get my answers. Whatever it was, it was difficult for me to accept such situation. May be because I would personally never do that and I judge people by the same standards that I have set for myself. This is where I went wrong.
People do not behave the way you want them to. There are times when even the closest friends behave in a different way than you expected them to. We live in a free country and people are free to behave their ways. It certainly feels bad but the good thing is that you know who your good friends are. The bad thing is that you feel like a fool to have gone wrong in understanding people.
Do yourself a favour. Remind yourself that it is not your fault when friends walk away.
I found this wonderful piece online, so thought of sharing.
© Written by Garima Mahajan
It happened with me too sometime back. I was hurt and needed to talk. But there was sudden indifference on my friends' part. I wondered why do people do that? I could not get my answers. Whatever it was, it was difficult for me to accept such situation. May be because I would personally never do that and I judge people by the same standards that I have set for myself. This is where I went wrong.
People do not behave the way you want them to. There are times when even the closest friends behave in a different way than you expected them to. We live in a free country and people are free to behave their ways. It certainly feels bad but the good thing is that you know who your good friends are. The bad thing is that you feel like a fool to have gone wrong in understanding people.
Do yourself a favour. Remind yourself that it is not your fault when friends walk away.
I found this wonderful piece online, so thought of sharing.
Reason, Season, or Lifetime--By: Brian A. "Drew" Chalker
What are you??? Are you a Reason a Season or a Lifetime?Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the reason it was sent to you! People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
THANK YOU for being a part of my life.
Work like you don't need the money
Love like you've never been hurt,
and dance like no one is watching.
© Written by Garima Mahajan
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