Moving On

Ever wondered where do all the emotions go when a relationship die? Or when you lose the precious person? Specially, in case of like- minded people who are kinda memory- keeper? 


An intelligent person once said' 'When you lose, don't lose the lesson'. Similarly, when you make the efforts to save something going astray, the emotions involved with it can also not go astray. Strangely, these emotions stay with us. They fester in the aura around us until we move on to something else. 


It is this 'moving on' business which is most critical and essential. So much effort you have put in to build something. Some time later, you have to put in to so much extra effort to 'move on' from that thing only! How sadistic and ironical can life get sometimes. Isn't it?


But this is the real challenge of your strength. The ultimate aim in life is to stay happier than before- with or without your emotions. Period. 


The world will never stop over your grief. Family and friends can help you for a while. But ultimately, it is your battle. You are the lone fighter. 


So, move on NOW. Do not dwell on what happened in the past. Let bygones be really bygones.


I am working on the same direction. Hope to see you around sometime soon on the 'moving on' road :)  

© Written by Garima Mahajan


Those who know me, know the cause of this post. Thank you, for all the love and support during the toughest period of my life. Thank you, for making me MOVE ON!